Lewis B. Smedes: "Maafkan seorang istri-membanting jika Anda bisa. Tap...
"Maafkan seorang istri-membanting jika Anda bisa. Tapi kamu tidak harus tinggal bersamanya. Maafkan suami yang menganiaya anak-anak Anda jika Anda bisa. Tetapi hanya setelah Anda mengusirnya dari rumah. Dan jika Anda tidak bisa mengeluarkannya, dapatkan bantuan. Tersedia. Sementara itu, jangan biarkan dia dekat dengan anak-anak, dan jangan biarkan ada yang memberi tahu Anda bahwa jika Anda memaafkannya itu berarti Anda harus tetap bersamanya. [Ada perbedaan penting antara memaafkan seseorang dan mentolerir perilaku buruk mereka.]"
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Versi Bahasa Inggris
Forgive a wife-slammer if you can. But you don't have to live with him. Forgive a husband who is abusing your children if you can. But only after you kick him out of the house. And if you can't get him out, get help. It's available. In the meantime, don't let him near the kids, and don't let anyone tell you that if you forgive him it means you have to stay with him. [There's an important difference between forgiving a person and tolerating their bad behavior.]
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