Stella Chess: "Ayah dapat tampak kuat dan luar biasa bagi putri mereka...

"Ayah dapat tampak kuat dan luar biasa bagi putri mereka. Biarkan dia melihat sisi lembut Anda. Ekspresikan perasaan dan reaksi Anda. Katakan padanya dari mana Anda berasal dan bagaimana Anda sampai di sana. Biarkan dia melihat bahwa Anda memiliki ketakutan, kegagalan, masa-masa cemas, sakit, seperti miliknya, meskipun Anda mungkin terlihat sempurna baginya."

--- Stella Chess

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Versi Bahasa Inggris

Fathers can seem powerful and overwhelming to their daughters. Let her see your soft side. Express your feelings and reactions. Tell her where you came from and how you got there. Let her see that you have had fears, failures, anxious times, hurts, just like hers, even though you may look flawless to her.